Here is some great advice from Dan Miller of 48 Days.
http://www.48days.com/2011/09/22/crushed-spirit/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+48Days+%2848+Days%29#
http://www.48days.com/2011/09/22/crushed-spirit/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+48Days+%2848+Days%29#